Despite all the dating taboos we've broken, one thing remains irritatingly persistent - the romantic equivalent of the mosquito that insists on buzzing at your ear in the middle of the night and whose whimpering thirst for blood destroys any hope of beauty rest.
We're talking about short dates. After a lifetime of always being picked last in basketball and having to endure Napoleon jokes, you may have resigned yourself to being single.
But why should you let the vertically blessed have all the fun?
Science even says that short men make better partners - so it's time to get over your fear of height. Get a head start on the competition with these tips for dating a taller woman.
Where to Meet a Tall Woman
There are probably two groups of people here. One group is people who are dating or considering dating a larger woman and are worried about the problems that might arise. The other group are people who find taller women attractive and are interested in how to get to know them and how to make a relationship work!
If you're in the first group, the rest of this guide is for you. If you're in the second group and want to know how to meet a taller woman, this section is for you.
Here you will find a list of the best places to meet a taller woman.
Online dating sites for taller women
No, there are no niche dating apps like supertallwomen.com or plentyoftallfish.com. That would be nice, but it's not the case. What does exist, however, are dating apps with lots of quality single women where height is displayed (and possibly searchable) in the profiles.
Sports leagues and teams
The taller a man is, the better he generally performs in certain sports where height is an advantage. The same is true for women. If you are looking for taller women, you should go to places where these height-dependent sports are played. The main sports you should consider are volleyball, basketball, track and field, and lacrosse. There are other sports too, but these are the main ones.
And where are these sports played? There are professional leagues, recreational leagues, college teams, and even amateur athletes at local parks and so on. Keep your eyes open for opportunities and you should be in luck.
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Yes, the pun is intended here. When you're out and about, keep an eye out for taller women. Just like smaller women, they go to the gym, or the grocery store and do everything that women of other body sizes do. If you open your eyes when you're out and about in the city, you'll notice a lot of taller women walking around.
Debunking Myths and Stereotypes
Stereotypes about body size have always been an issue in our society and it is not uncommon for people to say that all tall people are successful or that short people are not taken seriously. These stereotypes can be harmful and have negative consequences for people who do not conform to societal norms. Size stereotypes can affect a person's self-confidence, career opportunities, and even their love life. Although some people claim that size stereotypes are harmless, it is important to understand why these stereotypes are important and how they can affect people's lives.
1. Height and career success
While there is some correlation between height and career success, the reasons for this correlation are not entirely clear. One theory is that taller people are seen as more confident and dominant, which can lead to greater success in the workplace. However, there is also evidence that taller people are discriminated against in certain industries such as fashion and entertainment, where shorter stature is often seen as more desirable.
2. Height and sporting success:
It is undisputed that height can be an advantage in certain sports such as basketball or volleyball. However, this does not mean that smaller people cannot be successful athletes. Some of the most successful athletes in history, such as gymnast Simone Biles and jockey Willie Shoemaker, were of relatively small stature. Success in sports is determined by a variety of factors, including skill, training, and strategy, and height is just one of many factors that can contribute to success.
3. Height and social success:
It is often assumed that taller people are more socially successful, but this is not necessarily true. Although body size may initially make a person more conspicuous in a social setting, it is ultimately personality, social skills, and confidence that determine social success. Some studies have shown that smaller people are seen as more approachable and friendly, which can lead to greater social success.
4. The impact of size stereotypes:
The myths surrounding height and success can have a significant impact on individuals who do not fit the image of a tall, confident, and dominant person. Smaller people may feel insecure or inadequate compared to their larger peers, while larger people may feel pressured to live up to societal expectations of success. By understanding the reality of the link between size and success, we can dispel these myths and create a more inclusive and accepting society.
While there may be some correlation between height and success in certain areas of life, the reality is much more complex than many of us realize.
Benefits of Dating a Taller Woman
Despite all the haters, there's absolutely no doubt that there are many amazing benefits to dating a tall girl. Here's why you should put all your insecurities aside and ask the tall girl out:
Benefit 1. Infinitely long legs
This is an obvious one. A big advantage of dating a tall girl is that she looks stunning in tight jeans and even in traditional attire. Her long legs help her carry off almost any outfit perfectly, and she'll stand out no matter where you take her on a date. People will constantly tell you that she looks like a runway model because of her long legs.
Benefit 2. She gets more attention than the average girl
It's not very common to find a tall woman. After all, the average height of Asian women is somewhere between 5.0 and 5.4, so a tall woman automatically attracts more attention every time she walks into a room. You can shamelessly flaunt your tall date in front of your friends and family and be sure she'll get lots of compliments and be asked for advice on how to get taller too! You can try this yoga pose to look taller around your tall friends.
Benefit 3. You don't have to bend over all the time
When you're with a tall woman, your neck and back muscles don't have to strain as much. If you want to whisper something sweet in her ear or kiss her, you won't have to bend or stoop.
Benefit 4. You will not look too old in front of her
Little girls are constantly asked if they still go to school and how their exams went, even though they are already in their 20s. On the other hand, a tall woman looks her age, and you won't have to worry about coming across as a pervert when the two of you are together. Also, you'll be surprised to learn that shorter people have an increased risk of coronary heart disease.
Benefit 5. She's much more independent
Your tall friend doesn't need your help to reach anything from the top of the cupboard or to put bags on top of the cupboard. Thanks to her long legs and arms, she can do such everyday tasks with relative ease, and in some cases, she doesn't even need a stool.
Overcoming Challenges Together
This guide wouldn't exist if it weren't for some of the challenges that come with dating a higher woman. Society loves to hate and unfortunately, this is one of the areas where it does. Not to get you down, but here are a few of those challenges. And don't worry - after we talk about these challenges, we'll talk about how to ignore and overcome them in the next section.
- Society sucks - As mentioned earlier, society likes to make a big deal out of it when in reality it doesn't matter at all. As much as we wish we could control society, we can't. Just be prepared to be stared at and commented on, which you probably won't like.
- The anti-power move - Handled incorrectly, a larger woman can be your worst nightmare. If you feel belittled by her size, it's a constant feeling of emasculation that will never go away; and yes, it will be used against you in arguments. In the next section on overcoming this problem, we will look at this in depth.
- Your insecurities - Obviously, there's a certain stigma about dating a man who's shorter than you. You could very well be her first. If that's the case, then that's an obstacle you may need to overcome.
- Dancing - Don't think you can just take off on the dance floor. You first need to find out where the shoe pinches. Until you get a feel for the right positions, you'll find yourself in awkward positions that result in you smothering your face in her collarbone.
- Spooning position – we’re not going to lie to you, the symmetry isn't right here. It's just something you'll have to deal with until you get used to it. Maybe you should play with the little spoon for a while.
Now that we've outlined some of the challenges of being in a relationship with a larger woman, how can we overcome them? What steps can we take to make this not a situation, but a happy relationship? Here are some helpful tips.
Be confident
You need to be sure of your masculinity to go through with this relationship. People WILL talk and stare. You may have to stand on your toes a little to kiss, but that's okay. There will be times when she wants to wear high heels to look cute for you, which will ultimately doom you to an evening of even more stares. Get over it and embrace it; it's about the two of you and no one else.
There's no real difference
It's best to think that she's no different than any other girl you've dated because that's true. Just because she was able to ride the adult rides at Disney World a little earlier than you, doesn't make her any more or less of a normal woman. Where it gets problematic is when you treat her height like it's a big deal.
Compliments about her size
Some women feel empowered by their height, but it can also be a cause for insecurity. Being taller than everyone else can be uncomfortable, especially in middle school.
Address the haters if you have to
Ignoring people who stare at you or make jokes is often the best strategy. However, if people close to you (or not) won't stop, you need to address the issue. Be direct and let them know that you don't like the comments. If they still don't stop, you should remove them from your life because they care more about jokes than your feelings.
It's a "them" problem
Speaking of haters, it's important to point out that their comments and hatred probably stem from their insecurities and jealousy. They want to be with her, but it's you. And because they are so insecure about it, they try teasing and embarrassing looks. Indulge in jealousy!
She might not be worth it
If there's a taller woman you're interested in but she doesn't want to date you because you're shorter, great! Wait a minute, what? Why is that great? It's great because you found out she's shallow and not worth your time before you wasted it on her. Of course, there's nothing wrong with knowing what you want and being attracted to different things. But if a girl is more interested in size than how great you are, then she's not worth another second of your time.
Tips to Succeed Dating Someone Taller
Dating a taller woman is still an issue in this day and age! Men still disregard a difference of a few centimeters and allow it to diminish the chance of a good date. Take our advice, pack away your insecurities, and take back your confidence - because tall or short, height doesn't matter. A date with a larger woman should be as normal as a date with anyone else.
If you need more confidence when considering a date with a larger woman, let's look at some examples from Hollywood. Action star Jason Statham is head over heels in love with his model girlfriend Rosie Huntington-Whiteley. Oscar winner Nicole Kidman's husband, Keith Urban, is a few centimeters shorter than her. But have you seen the photos of the two of them on the red carpet? They are simply stunning.
However, if you are still a little unsure, we have something for you. There are many benefits to dating a taller woman. We can give you some foolproof tips to help you shed your insecurities and dive into the dating pool. Read on to learn how you should date a taller woman.
1. Discard stereotypes
If you're swiping left on someone's profile because they're taller than you, then it's time to rethink your conditioning. Don't be so insecure at the thought of dating a taller woman. The stereotype that a girl who is taller than her boyfriend is wrong should be at the top of the list of things to unlearn and needs to be jettisoned. If a woman's height is an issue, it reflects badly on society, which has taught us that men should dominate over women, even when it comes to height.
Forget such societal gobbledygook and try a larger woman. You'll find common interests with her, just like you do when you're dating someone interesting. You must understand that her height has nothing to do with her personality. If you have apprehensions, keep in mind that many men are in relationships where the woman is taller than they are. If she rejects you because of your height, that's her bad luck.
2. Self-confidence is one of the best tips for dating a taller woman
Self-confidence is an all-weather tip, even if you want to date a taller woman. There is no alternative to this accessory. Show her that you are happy with yourself and that you don't have any insecurities because she is taller than you. Accepting that you are shorter than her will make you feel more confident and she will pick up on that.
When you embrace your masculinity, you don't have to worry about fulfilling societal gender roles. You don't have to go out of your way to play Prince Charming for the damsel in distress. If you have no problems being small in a relationship, it also shows that you don't conform to gender stereotypes.
3. Don't constantly mention her height on dates
One of the most important tips for dating a taller woman is that you shouldn't joke about the size difference on your first date. This would ruin her mood and is not good for dating etiquette. Plus, you might come across as an insecure clown with only one thought on your mind: oh my god, she's tall! Besides, she's already heard all the jokes about her height, she doesn't need a date trying to make her laugh at the expense of her height.
If you are dating a taller woman, you should treat her like any other woman. You wouldn't have made jokes like that if you were dating a woman who was the same size as you or smaller.
4. A date with a taller woman? Be prepared for jokes
Your friends may make jokes about you dating a taller woman because they haven't gotten over their insecurities and because they still hold on to patriarchal values. Make sure they don't go too far or say anything offensive. If they are good friends, they will understand your feedback correctly and stop messing with you. Finally, they need to understand that relationships where the woman is taller than the man are just as normal as any other.
However, the jokes may not be limited to your friends. You could also attract negative comments and stares when you walk hand in hand in public or indulge in a bit of PDA. The best way to defuse these situations is to avoid confrontation. The last thing you want is to get into an argument. Just remember that all those naggers don't know the benefits of dating a bigger woman (wink!). You'll be able to enjoy your relationship to the fullest once you get over your insecurities about dating a taller woman.
5. Concentrate on your other qualities
We can assure you that there's more to you than how tall or short you are. You have plenty of zeal and individuality to overcome the small gap between your body sizes. Make sure you emphasize these qualities when dating a larger woman.
Talk about anything on a date but the size difference. Talk about your family, your hobbies, and what you value in a relationship - this is more important than your appearance. Be present during the time you spend together. If you do this, she is sure to fall in love with you.
Bottomline
Let's answer what you really want to know: Do tall girls like short boys? And the answer is yes! Many women are willing to date shorter men, while others seek them out. Some even believe that shorter men have a better personality and character than taller men because they have never been marginalized because of their height.
Perhaps the most important realization is that you'll be surprised at how open women are to a relationship with a man who isn't as tall as they are. Sure, you're shorter than them, but you still have a lot to offer, and wouldn't you rather date someone open-minded than someone who won't give you a chance just because of your stature?
So can a shorter guy date a taller girl? Yes, of course, and they can spend a long and happy life together. But a big part of the success of your relationship depends on both parties being comfortable, confident, and secure enough in their height to be in a relationship.